For every wave that crashes on the beach shore, another relationship is over. Such is the speed which our relationships seem to end in these modern times. Even though society expects us to adjust pretty quickly, in practice it seems to take much more time for that realization that it’s over to finally hit home. This is merely a fact that we all have to deal with and for the most part, both sides seem pretty okay with it, barring a really tragic break-up. In some cases a person becomes much more invested in the relationship than the other and it is because of this that they have so much more trouble dealing with the realization that it’s finally over. If you’re reading an article, with such a title as this one has, then you’re probably in this very situation. Either you’ve been broken up with, or in rare cases, you did the breaking up and now regret your decision. Whoever pulled the trigger, the point is now you want to know whether it’s possible to get your ex back. Well, the tips herein should help you on the way towards discovering whether it’s possible to get your ex back or not.
Before reading on, you need to know that in some cases, your ex is completely lost to you, there’s nothing you can do to get her back. The good news is, you’ll know in your heart of hearts whether this is the case that you’re in or not. Did you lose her in a huge fight or were you abusive to her emotionally or physically? Did she seem very resolute when she broke it off or did it seem pretty open ended? How hard did you fight when she originally told you? Maybe you were the one that broke it off. In this case, how did she take the news? Did she take it in stride or did she seem horrified to hear it? All of these questions are ones that you’ll need to answer if you hope to answer the question of whether you can get her back or not.
To keep things short, basically, if you were the one that broke things off and she was sad to hear about it, then you’ll always have a chance getting her back. If she was the one that broke things off but she seemed genuinely sad to be saying it and her words were truly heartfelt then you’ll know that there is a possibility that you can still resolve things. The less amicably things ended, the better for you. If you don’t feel that this applies to you, don’t even try. Save yourself a lot of pain and heartache and don’t go down a road that you know will end in ruin. If you think that you really still have a shot with her, if your relationship was just the bees knees when you were together, if you would prefer her to be in your arms rather than anyone else’s, and you know she feels the same way deep down, then keep on reading and see what you can do.
The first thing you’re going to need to do is determine whether she’s in a relationship or not. Social networking makes this easy. Does she have a facebook or twitter where she posts updates about her life, or maybe even pictures? If so, are there any new men in her life? You’re guaranteed to catch one, but if not, just ask a mutual friend to be certain. If she does have a new boyfriend then you’re going to want to see what you can do to keep her more interested in you, but if not, then it should just make this step easier.
First of all, you need to re-establish contact. You need to make sure that you two can still be friends or that she still considers you to be friends. Try going out with her more often (once you’ve passed the point of grieving of course) and just insert yourself into her life as much as possible. Even if she has a boyfriend, she has to know that you’re still committed to getting her back.
Once you’ve established that you want to be a really big part of her life again, you’re going to need to remind her why your relationship was so great. You can’t just make a move from the beginning because you will be rejected. What you need to do is just show her the smartest, wittiest, most charming and interesting side of yourself and let her know what she’s missing out on when she goes out with someone else. She needs to know on a subconscious level that by not going out with you, she’s missing out on something. Once you’ve sufficiently let her know that she should miss you and want you back, there’s one final step you should take.
If you’re going to try to accomplish the impossible and make your ex-girlfriend love you again, you’re going to want to take every shortcut and go for every source of help you can get. The best thing you can do right before you let her know your true feelings again is to put on some PherX or similar pheromone product. There are a few that do the trick, PherX is merely mentioned because they have the best reviews and highest concentration of real pheromones, but all you need to do is throw on some pheromones.
When she gets a whiff of the pheromones, she will immediately remember that strong sexual urge that she had for you as well, and it will be re-awakened in her like mad. She rejected you before, but all of the activities you’ve been doing with her lately combined with her sexual lust at this moment should allow you to be completely honest with her and just tell her how you feel and that you want to get back together. If all of this leads to a firm “no” still then you took your best shot and it’s time to give up. However in many cases, this will actually lead to a yes, and you will have your girlfriend back again. Congratulations.